Category Archives: relationships

The Man Behind The Curtain

He smiles when it rains love

Glows when the moon sets

Roars like the king of the jungle when I’m hurt

Keeps me in the comfort of his arms….

I see a man sitting in the dead of the night, staring hard…

Do I really know the man behind the curtain?

Have you ever really sat down to think about your partner, who he really is, what goes on in that tiny mind of his. What does he do when you aren’t looking? Is he really generally stable?

Good question…

Several of us have said I trust my partner, we communicate very well…that is very good, trust is one of the building blocks of a good relationship and communication is essential be it courtship or marriage, but have an open mind, we are all human; in the process of doing both and giving space know that the devil exist in us to act just as their is goodness in us. Sometimes we are weak but pretend to be strong…

Do you really know the man behind the curtain?

Whoever is behind the curtain of your love life. Be attentive- eddaz.

 

 

 

The Building Blocks Of A Relationship

Every relationship has issues

But when you confront it

By giving it everything you’ve got

Such as Communication, trust, patience

Then you have tightened a bond

That can never be broken.

The building blocks of relationships that makes it stand strong and firm as tested and trusted by the older generations are being stamped on by the younger generations.

Why?

We are so impatient, lack trust for whatever reason, we see communication as a disturbance or unnecessary move, we want it right here! Now! Immediately or we will crumble.

Communication, trust and patience are the steps to wisdom we need to thrive to embrace, feed upon and apply to our daily lives, relationships and marriages. It has worked before, will work again and will always work!!!

 

Is Sex A Priority Or An Option?

I would like to analyze this in two aspects ” sex as a priority or an option in a relationship” and sex as a priority or an option in a marriage”…

From my point of view which I believe is same with many of us- sex is a priority in marriage…isn’t it? So enjoy it to the fullest.

Is sex a priority or an option

Talking about it being a priority in a relationship, I would definitely say NO. I’m dead sure a lot of guys are not on same page with me here.

Having sex with my boyfriend is an option for me because it’s my body until he wraps that ring on my finger, then it becomes a priority. Better still if I chose to have sex with him, it’s still my option because I love to.

Is sex a priority or an option?

It’s high time men stop seeing sex as priority especially these damned stuffed up men on the dating site that seek for sex like they would die any moment they don’t get it.

 

 

What’s Love Got To Do With It

Just like Tina Turner sang it….

What’s love got to do, got to do with it

What’s love but a second hand emotion

What’s love got to do, got to do with it

Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken…

I met a man recently who turned out to be married. It was just right on time for me to nail the damn situation… Guess what he said when I told him I’m not into married men!!

He said ‘I never wanted to marry my wife, I had to marry her under the circumstances I found myself twenty years ago and now I will be free in three years time to divorce her and marry the woman of my dreams, I believe you are the one’

What!!!😓😓…So many cruel men out there now, moving around like vultures looking for preys to feed on😈…’I shall not be moved’

I hope he’s wife won’t be singing that song soon…And I will be singing smooth operator by Sade Adu…

A license to love, insurance to hold

Melts all your memories and change into gold

His eyes are like angels but his heart is cold…

Eyes Of An Avid Lover

Desire flows in streams of hot larva

Through the veins of an avid lover

Love so rare…So sweet…Waiting to unleash…

Have you met a person that loves so tremendously? You can’t compare it to that of the love between that of a mother and new born baby…It’s hot, desirerous, flammable…

Loving someone is good and to be loved back is awesome but an avid lover in as much as has the positive qualities not limited to loyalty, knightly, loverboy ,a go-getter also has it’s negative sides which in most cases outshines the good faith. Such qualities like jealousy, revengeful, obsession, and more…

Nerve judge a book by it’s cover….

So watch out for the eyes of an avid lover…