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Love, Sex & Marriage In The Ancient Time

October 20, 2016 EDDaz 25 Comments

When we look back to history, we find out that love, sex and marriage is quite different from what we have now. Ancient times dating back to centuries ago; polygamy was practiced more, even by the Hebrews. According to the Bible, King Solomon had 700 wives with hundreds of children but now in the 20th century till date, polygamy has reduced except still being practiced amongst the Muslims according to their religion and by some upper class people mostly in the African region.

Marriage used to be based on contracts to seal nations. The elite married their daughters off to acquire wealth, properties and lands. Women had no say in whom they can marry or what their heart desired. Marriages were mostly arranged and finalised at their young age. Marriages used to last longer, ‘until death do us apart’ was for real. Nowadays people marry for love, and then divorce creeped in like a thief in the night unfortunately it doesn’t creep in anymore, it comes out boldly to announce itself without any care in the world.

In ancient times people bear children as if it was a competition, nowadays it is suppressed by family planning to reduce over population, moreover some nations are getting poorer, their is very little means of feeding families. Majority of couples actually avoid having children and can basically decide if they want kids or not and how many they want.

In ancient times marriage was legalised between men and women but now we have legalised same sex marriages.

Sex was meant for virgins and practiced after marriage back in the centuries, it was done more cautiously; now people have sex at their leisure times for fun. I’ve heard some crazy facts about sex back then, I’m not sure which is crazier. Is sex more enjoyable and decent now or nastier in the ancient times? Please find out here.

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Do Women Really Fall for Flattery?

October 10, 2016 EDDaz 38 Comments

Over the years, there has been a saying that ” If you want a woman to comply to your requests, try using flattery to persuade her.” Really I wonder if every or any man can get away with this with all women. It may have worked a couple of times, in fact it has worked 98 percent of the time used. Flattery plays well with women. YES! But it doesn’t sit still. She will always refer back to it.

Hank Ketcham- Flattery is like chewing gum. Enjoy it, but don’t swallow it.

Perhaps women have been complying with this over the years.

Flattery is the worst and fastest way of showing our esteem – Jonathan Swift

Flattery is a form of positive energy which men use to compliment or entice women when they need an instant result from them; it’s usually used instead of enforcing them to bend to their will.

Forms of Flattery used on women by men:

Men flatter women with words, lies, compliments and gestures.
Listening attentively to a woman talk for hours, even when she sounds very boring.
Pretending to have turned a new leaf by acting like a saint or being over sincere.
Showing interests in her accomplishments even if they make no sense to him.

A woman care about actions more than words, empty juicy flattery with nothing to back it up will only get her to pay attention initially, but will not go too far with her.

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Harry-My sexy Female Director has done it

September 29, 2016 EDDaz 15 Comments

My sexy female director. The CEO of one of the greatest organisations in the country, the brainy beauty. The woman that has created not just one nightmare but several of them that haunts me now will surely lead to my downfall; now she has given me a choice, “this is mine…it’s time for you to make your contributions to the organisation.” She held onto my manhood while she said it.

The past few weeks has been rough for me. I used to believe so much in my capabilities, why has a mere woman suddenly made me feel like I’m nothing? Maybe I have been fooling myself all this while, thinking I had it all. Apparently she employed me, not expecting anything intellectual from me but to fulfill her sexual needs. Now it’s payback time.She asked for it, and will surely get it. It’s time to put an end to this drama she calls “COO COO”.Then she will get to know Harry better.

“I am Harry, every ladies dream man, at the snap of my finger, ladies run all over themselves just to have a sweet savor taste of me. My sex-On-the-beach apartment faces the beach side. Becky, my main sweet babe. All she has to do is to maintain her sought after position, and play according to the rules of the game.”

I will definitely survive the claws of this b..chy CEO. I hadn’t heard a word from her since her direct confrontation with me where she grabbed my balls. I was frightened then, but next time she gets alone with me, I would rip her cloths apart, throw her on my desk, f..ck her brains out. I would give her more than what she asked for. I would be so done with her, she would come back begging for more. I would take over her heart; Obviously she would be left with no choice other than to promote me three levels higher.

I was deep in thoughts when Rob, the new face of the company walked in with the CEO. I actually don’t know much about him, and I care less. He was the handsome dude, I would call him a genius as staff members said he never failed at anything he lays his hands on. Hmm! What a man I must say. What amazes me more was the fact that he walked hand in hand into my office with my CEO babe whom I had been patiently waiting for.

Rob spoke up first in an arrogant manner. He said, “Harry, I have heard so much about you,” I stared at him in fake confidence while she stood beside him with an unexpressed face. He further said, “We will have to transfer you to another state which is about 2 days drive from here, there is no direct flight to the destination. That company is our new branch where you have to oversee the administrative department, you will be in charge of the cleaners, drivers, security men and housekeepers of the guest houses. You need to be ready to move in the next 48 hrs, my P.A will draft a transfer letter to that effect before the close of work. Get ready.”

Here are the links to the first and second part of the stories:

Harry- Oh my sexy female director

Harry – What my sexy female director did

Thanks for reading. XoXo

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Look Into The Eyes of Your Partner

September 25, 2016 EDDaz 26 Comments

When you look into the eyes of your partner what do you see? Is it a desire for sex, confusion, affection, or guilt? Looking deeply at your true love isn’t just about staring at the eyes but also about studying their body language, listening attentively, and reading between the lines.

Have you ever thought the partner you love so much might be having some unresolved discrepancies in his life? There might be difficult issues he’s going through that are hidden. Talking about them usually gets resolved.

We are humans, facing situations in life that we have locked away. Are the demons after us, are they bugging us, or are they crying to be let out of that hiding place where they are hibernating?

I have seen situations where partners make mistakes and keep them from the other. Talking about them or ironing them out might have resolved them and built a stronger force against evil, such as sexual desires for others, and resilient attitudes. Just maybe they would still be together in love.

We all have demons and are bound to fall but rise again. Anyone can make mistakes, but we learn from them to be stronger and better. We have to learn to look into the eyes of our partners, they carry heavy messages, languages, and vibes. Some people don’t know how to express love physically. Look into their eyes and you might find it hiding in that depth. Is your partner trying to convey a message to you? Look into her eyes, and you might find it struggling in there. Maybe they don’t know how to tell you about the mistake they made, but they need to talk about it.

Never fear what you see in those eyes; no matter the magnitude. It may as well be sweet or bitter. Things might not be the way they seem or could be better.

Look into the eyes of your loved one before it’s too late, and when you see those things hiding in there, never use it against them but love them more, listen to them, help them in the process of release, remember we are all human and need each other’s help to grow.

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A Letter to my Lover

September 20, 2016 EDDaz 58 Comments

Hello My Lover,

What would it take for us to be together?

What would it take to have us in each others arms?

What would it take for me to stop having sleepless nights?

I’m writing this letter expressing my heartfelt emotions to you, my needs are becoming endless, my love for you has blossomed, I need you more than before. I want to claim what’s mine- I can no longer wait. The distance between us seem to enlarge everyday, It tears my heart apart to know that I can’t reach you, I can’t touch you, neither can I look into your eyes to see compassion...

I break down in tears everyday knowing you are too far from me, I wish to join you but I can’t, I want to hold you, I want to feel your heartbeat, I need to feel the chemistry. When I sleep at night, I feel the wind across the room, and I hear you whisper in the air, “I love you.”

Why can’t you come to me? I kneel and pray to God everyday to make me set my eyes on you… What is stopping you? I need you so much, my heart is weakening, my life makes no sense without you by my side. Where are you?

Oh my lover! I find it hard to breath now…I feel choked by your absence, I need to breath again, when has the air gotten tagged with a price, why has it suddenly gone scarce? The stars have stopped falling from the sky for me to make wishes anymore. I know not what went wrong. I can no longer wish for you to come…but to tell you to come.

What would it take for me to be your perfect woman? I am not perfect, I am not descent, I am not the most honorable woman but what matters most is that, I AM YOUR PERFECT WOMAN! I was made and prepared for you!

Dear lover, what would it take for me to be the world that revolves around you, would it make you come to me? I would be your whore in bed, I would be that career woman you you’ve always admired, I would become that chef you want, I would become your super woman, I would sing into your heart until you are at peace, I would stroke you so passionately you would never turn your back on me….eddaz

My Love, in my heart, I do read your letters. I have kept them safely where no one can ever reach them, they are the only comfort I have right now, I hug them every night so that I can sleep in peace…It’s time for you to come home to me, home is where the heart is they say, this is where your heart is. I have prepared a bouquet with the best of the best fragrance for you, your arrival is long awaited, everything is set, I am on fire for you, I am set for you —PLEASE COME HOME.