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Navigating Love in a Changing World

Romantic relationships have undergone evolution over the centuries, reflecting the shifting dynamics of society, culture, technology, and individual desires. From arranged marriages to modern-day love stories, the journey of romantic relationships has been fascinating.

  1. The Traditional Arrangement: Marriage for Survival

In ancient times, romantic relationships usually focused on practicality and survival. Love was secondary to the economic, social, or political alliances they fostered. They arranged marriages, and individuals had little say in choosing their life partners. Romantic love was a relatively minor consideration.

  1. The Emergence of Romantic Love

The concept of romantic love began to gain prominence during the Middle Ages in Europe, where troubadours and poets celebrated love in their art and literature. The idea of marrying for love gradually took root, emphasizing personal happiness and emotional connection.

  1. The Victorian Era: Love and Social Constraints

During the Victorian era, romantic relationships were distinct because of the strict code of conduct and social norms. Courtship rituals were elaborate, and strict etiquette governed the interactions between individuals. Love was idealized but often constrained by societal expectations.

  1. The 20th Century: Freedom and Independence

The 20th century has witnessed significant changes in romantic relationships. The Women’s Liberation Movement in the 1960s and 1970s challenged traditional gender roles and paved the way for greater gender equality in relationships. The rise of divorce rates and changing family structures reflected a shift toward individual autonomy and personal fulfillment.

  1. The Digital Age: Love in the Digital World

The 21st century has brought about a digital revolution in romantic relationships. Online dating platforms have made it easier for people to connect, breaking down geographical barriers and allowing individuals to find compatible partners based on shared interests and values. Social media has also reshaped how we communicate and express love, often blurring the lines between the virtual and real worlds.

  1. Modern Complexity: Navigating Love Today

Today’s romantic relationships are complex and diverse. The non-traditional ones, such as open relationships and polyamory, have gained acceptance in some circles. Society is becoming more inclusive and accepting of diverse gender identities and sexual orientations.

The evolution of romantic relationships reflects our ever-changing understanding of love, individualism, and societal values. While the path of love has shifted dramatically, the enduring human desire for companionship, connection, and love remains.

We Are Women To Be Cherished

We are women to be cherished.

We are beautiful

The heart beat of mankind

We are gorgeous and should be protected

Love us and be kind to us.

We are powerful.

 

We are women to be cherished

The nation needs us to eradicate adversities

Women are strong to face the wrought of evil

Women bring out the greatness hidden in men

We are givers of life

The man’s strenght comes from the women

We are women to be cherished, keep that smile beaming on our faces and see the whole lot we brought into the world to offer.

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Would You Show Love Or Say It

It’s usually a confusing state of mind when women and men in relationships don’t know if to tell their partner they are in love with them or just simply keep showing it without having to say it out.

Some have had sad experiences where when they start saying “I love you” to their partner is actually the stage when the partner starts messing up or taking their feelings for granted because it now sounds like song to their ears.

Remember some of us get tired of even very interesting songs over time while others probably don’t, which is very rare.

Which would you rather do?

•Say it often to your partner ” I love you”?

•Just simply keep showing the love and affection without saying it?

•Do both but how often?

 

When He Cares But Not Ready

I’ve sometimes wondered about this type of men that show women they care about them but say it out so blatantly that they aren’t ready for a commitment and then this type of man that wants to get a girl pregnant before he decides to marry her. Life is a wierd dude…. ain’t it? I was at the salon and heard a group of friends talk about this men in their life.

Guy A.

He’s a cool guy, doing fine in his career, responsible, funny, shows support to the girl he cares about, treats her with respect and not a player but not sure if he is ready to get committed by going into a relationship with her, doesn’t even care much about getting sex or not. Beeps her when she goes quiet.

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My opinion is that this guy has a phobia of some sort. But what can a girl do with this type of guy?

Guy B.

He’s got good career, hardworking bad ass guy, good looking, searching for a girl to get pregnant before he decides to get married to her considering the fact that he has tried lots of girls that haven’t been able to give him one. Lol…even though he already has a kid almost out of college.

He cares but not ready

My opinion is that I’m clueless to what this guy really wants. Or maybe he’s just damn old school.

What’s your opinion about this two guys?

Why Women Should Not Cling Unto Their Men

Dated back to ages women have always being known to be the more demanding sex, more emotionally attached in body and soul…Women are naturally emotionally charged while men are sexually charged.

Why women should not cling to their men

Men would rather think with their….down there…While women think with the brains; this is a natural phenomenon which equals easily making women attached to the man they have strong feelings for. Men too have feelings but not as equal to that of the other sex. Clinging to men is enhanced when a woman is in love especially once she gets intimate with him…Does that mean women shouldn’t get involved in sex with men they love? Clinging to men simply can be described when a woman despises seeing her man staring at a woman, when he’s talking with another lady, he’s hanging out with friends, he does not call her 24/7, she wants to be with him most times or at all times if possible…Maybe some men like this but a greater percentage of them honestly detest this attitude.

Why women should not cling to men

Sex is strong, soul binding and if not careful can make women start attaching sentiments to the relationship which results to clinging onto the man. Clinging to men is not only unhealthy but can also make one lose out in the relationship by making men feel choked up and then run for their life, it makes women appear insecure. Men love freedom, they love sexy women that know what they are out there for. As women we need to be independent, strong, focused, aim to achieve the best and be at the upper hand of a relationship. Women have got the brains, learn to use them to your own advantage. Women have got the power to have whatever they wish to have only when used with the will power bestowed on us.

Women appear sexier when not clingy, more beautiful they become because they get all the attention which radiates from their heart. Women become clingy once they detect a man losing focus on them…Don’t get me wrong, I know how painful this can feel but note that a man that loves and respects you will always come back for you, if a man walks out on you, let it be…Things will surely work out in your own favour…This also applies to a man in a relationship with a woman…