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Behind every beautiful there has been some kind of pain. Welcome to my blog where faith meets love and light ❤️☺

Stab Those Rules To Successful Relationships

I’ve often wondered if there are actually rules to a successful relationship as been told by some relationship experts and so on. What I’m trying to say here is this day to day rules been proposed by them…do they still work?

Has anyone applied some of this rules to their relationships recently and have come out with a successful love affair that has led to lasting relationship or marriag?

However my opinion in retrospect to this rules is that it cannot be 100 percent applied to everyone because a lot of us are wierd especially now that society has gone Gaga….

Stab those rules to Successful Relationships

Note….a lot of us are wierd and society has gone Gaga…. So please don’t be deceived.

Sitting and staring into the face of this rules or memorizing them? Haha…it’s best you study your partner and follow your heart….

You either win or loose!!

If Living Is Without You

If living is without you

Would the bells of joy remain?

Would the beauty of life manifest in me?

Would I be fulfilled deep within?

Would anyone else be able to touch the strings in me?

Who can heal me of the turmoil in my heart?

He has asked this question several times, “can I live without you?”

And I have answered him without hesitation, “you can live without me but with me close to your heart”

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You have a choice to make….

Indecisions only draw us back from taking what belongs to us, there will come a day when the one we believe is the one for us will decide to take another path because we are still waiting to be sure if he or she is the one….-eddaz

 

I Am Loosing My Mind

When darkness falls

It seems I’m in the light

When the sun rises

It seems like the moon is shining

I see a shadow tailing after me

I am loosing my mind…

I see you walking to me

Arms stretched out to hold me

And when I want to pull you into my arms

It seems you vanish into thin air

I am loosing my mind…

Have you found yourself in a situation where you were deeply in love and it happened that your loved one is gone forever…you crave to have them back in your life, held in your arms, cuddled together in bed, you try to reach out but they are just gone forever…

Don’t loose it!

You will be fine…they are there watching and loving you wishing for you to move on and be happy.

When He Cares But Not Ready

I’ve sometimes wondered about this type of men that show women they care about them but say it out so blatantly that they aren’t ready for a commitment and then this type of man that wants to get a girl pregnant before he decides to marry her. Life is a wierd dude…. ain’t it? I was at the salon and heard a group of friends talk about this men in their life.

Guy A.

He’s a cool guy, doing fine in his career, responsible, funny, shows support to the girl he cares about, treats her with respect and not a player but not sure if he is ready to get committed by going into a relationship with her, doesn’t even care much about getting sex or not. Beeps her when she goes quiet.

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My opinion is that this guy has a phobia of some sort. But what can a girl do with this type of guy?

Guy B.

He’s got good career, hardworking bad ass guy, good looking, searching for a girl to get pregnant before he decides to get married to her considering the fact that he has tried lots of girls that haven’t been able to give him one. Lol…even though he already has a kid almost out of college.

He cares but not ready

My opinion is that I’m clueless to what this guy really wants. Or maybe he’s just damn old school.

What’s your opinion about this two guys?

Good Girl Turns Bad

The good girl only wants to be happy

She was created soft and to just be herself

With an open mind, she sees the world

As a place to love, share, care and live

To bring beauty into the space and spice it up

But of course she gets muddled up

Good girl turn baf

Back in the days when love and respect existed, there was happiness although very few heartbreaks here and there, probably due to family issues.

Good girls were everywhere for the taking to be baptised into marriage and marital life had a path, not so rosy sometimes but it existed.

But now see what we have; all girls have turned bad except a few of us…haha yes I’m one of them good girls…

Dating and marital life is now easily compared to hell in most cases.

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Why have they turned bad?

Heartbreak, denial, lies, deception, rejection, sexual harassment at work place, home, name it…

Turned the light into darkness

Dampening their souls

They cry hard when alone

Afraid to live again, to face the world

Hard to love again but to pretend and hurt more.

Do I blame them? NO!! But…

Let’s not allow bitterness creep into our soul..each time we fall, we must rise again to be stronger and wiser so that the generation of good girls that once existed can be back again to retain sunshine- eddaz