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My First Ebook

Over the years I’ve had a yearning to write and publish, so I went ahead and started out by writing poems which got to the lime light on greeting cards, and birthday cards. I went further with my fierce yearning to write more, then I wrote two books, one completed and the other yet to be completed, and not published. Why stop? I felt I needed to start a blog…

I got distracted, I opened a website that wasted a lot of my time and stopped me from writing but got me running after adverts😯. Truth is that’s not my aim with my blog, if it comes, that’s fine but not threading on the block of distraction no more. That mistake though shed light on so many things I hadn’t seen before. It actually took me on a journey I never knew existed.

I decided to start afresh since I wasn’t breathing properly any longer.. I needed to write my heart out. First by shutting down the website👌 best decision I ever made in my life…no regrets at all😎, then I started blogging, and it’s been my joy, now I have a balanced life.

My debut Ebook which will be out soon is different from my other unpublished books, I will write more about it as time goes by. A lot of my friends wondered why the self help book first and not romance or something else, and I said this is what I want to get out there now because I have a longing for it, I need to get it out there for people that need it, it will touch lives, it will open sights, not the physical ones…you know what I mean I believe!

You all have a great day.

Xoxoxo

 

 

 

Awards and Tags

I was nominated for some awards and tags which I would like to honor by appreciating the bloggers who nominated me.

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2nd Liebster Award

I would love to thank Domestic Diva for nominating for the award, she blogs about parenting issues, book reviews and creative writing. Kindly visit her blog because its awesome.

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I would like to nominate the following bloggers:

  1. I-read
  2. Aria Bella Rises
  3. SUVS writings
  4. Embracingauthenticity
  5. Burbuqe’s blog
  6. Sneakers on pavement
  7. My Life Online

It’s an award given to bloggers by bloggers who are positive and creatively inspire others in the blogosphere. You are not under any obligation to participate but accept it as an acknowledgement of your efforts. You bloggers rock.

 

2nd and 3rd Sunshine Bloggers Award

The sunshine blogger award

I would love to thank Faded rouge and Making time for me for the nominations. Faded rouge blogs about Photography, fashion, travel and food. it’s a lovely blog. kindly visit.

I would love to thank Making time for me for nominating me for the award. She shares various stories on her blog which are quite inspiring. Kindly visit her aewsome blog. You will love it.

Sunshine blogger award rules

I would love to nominate the following bloggers for their devotion, and contribution they have made to the blogging community. Everyone deserves an ward for their hard-work, and this is for all bloggers.

  1. Ednakimaniblog
  2. Styled colorfully
  3. Writcrit
  4. The Apocalyptic Spiritual War
  5. The Medici Files
  6. Southern By design
  7. It is still real
  8. They, you and me
  9. Ayoka
  10. Daiseizbeauty
  11. Mysestina

 

MakeitUltra Blogger Award

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If you wish to accept the award. The rules are simple:

  1. Accept award or accept it as a compliment
  2. Credit Award Nominator
  3. Copy and paste award image in your post
  4. Explain what the award is for – Check Above
  5. Nominate whoever you want.

The intention of this award is to encourage connectivity and support in the blogging community and to increase exposure for individual bloggers.

I would like to thank Daisy in the Willows for this award. Daisy you are great, an inspiration to me, there is never a dull moment with you on your blog. Words only can’t express how much you mean in the blogging community. Kindly check out her blog. It’s great.

I would like to nominate the following bloggers whom I know some are award free blogs, but I’m nominating them anyways because they are great bloggers and they make me want to blog some more:

  1. For friends without Borders
  2. The black wall blog
  3. Post prodigal.com
  4. Son of a beach96
  5. The Bellezer corner
  6. Fun House Vision
  7. Somawrites
  8. The Journey of my left foot whilst remembering my son
  9. Diary of a married woman
  10. Anna Cottage
  11. Mitigating Circumstances
  12. Books, Books and More Books
  13. Emoulet
  14. Peaceful Journey
  15. B-up to Date

 

If you were born with a super power tag

This is a tag created by FarahEDZ. I was nominated by Zoe169. Thanks for nominating me Zoe. He’s an awesome blogger, please check out his blog.

Rules

All you have to do is say the creator. Nominator and which super power you would want and why. Kindly note that you are not under any obligation to participate. I think it’s fun.

I would choose the super power to heal so that I can free people of all types of sicknesses and diseases just by placing my hands on them so that no one would have to suffer from ill health.

Nominees:

  1. Daisy in the Willows
  2. Original-Dante
  3. Desi World of Thoughts
  4. Diary of a married woman
  5. Faded Rouge

 

 

 

 

 

What Men see When They Look at Women

Have you ever looked into the eyes of a man when he sees an attractive lady with gorgeous smile set across her face, full sumptuous lips like berry, beautifully set backside, and glowing skin.

I have seen it times without number! In my estimation, men simply love to express their gratitude with their EYES ON WOMEN.

What transpires in the mind of a man when this happens,  I heard it’s called CHEMICAL HIGH. Such as when water is been added into an acid.

Men, regardless of their status quo, whether married or single… look at women, this is a fact that needs to be acknowledged, their is no way out of the truth.

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Men have been programmed in such a way to appreciate the physical structure of women… be it naked or fully clothed; Women should’t allow this affect their way of life or relationship with their partner, men will always stare at women. Some  men go as far as stripping a fully clothed women naked with their eyes, their ripples of thoughts go as wild as having sex with the woman on the spot or trying to decide which sex position will befit the lady…..Some obviously gaze just to admire the beauty of a lady.

It’s ridiculous when some of these men go as far as five rounds of sex on a pinpoint with their thoughts. What a high sexual drive that is.

Yet, it is carried overboard by some men where they can’t control their thoughts; this type of men are the ones that ladies should be aware of and take caution.

Here is my own take; Since evolution, men have always had a high sexual drive which in most cases control their thoughts.

Women have you ever found yourself in a situation where you are jogging or you simply make a sudden movement and a man just sits-stares at your bouncing boobs, it’s so amazing how men can flaunt their eyes in such a devastating manner, even so, it’s all about appreciating the woman’s SEXY BOOBS… I guess some men just try to guess the size of a lady’s breast, if it’s an A cup, C cup or DD….

#woman-boobs-bouncing

As for those women trying not to shake their bootylicious bottom too often; These bits don’t bother guys, they will stare UNTIL THEY START SHIVERING like they are in winter whilst in summer. So shake it as much as you love to; You are endowed.

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I had an experience in high school, where a male student walked up to me and said, “anytime I set my eyes on you, I feel like wrapping you up in my arms because you look so seductive,” I actually didn’t know how to respond to the nonsense talk at that moment since I was still kind of innocent, so I walked off in a confused state….Now I know better.

I decided to write this article because I saw a scenario where my colleague gawked openly at a female client, I got concerned when he looked away, sat down at his desk like he was going to start shedding tears.

Here is what happened:

Me: Frank, are you alright?

Frank: Yes, yes I am.

Me:Why did you stare at the lady that way?

Frank: I didn’t know you where watching.

Me: I just noticed what happened briefly.

Frank: You Know…..I appreciate women but I have never seen anything like this in real life.

Me: What is it?

Frank: Didn’t you see her lips? It’s battered with surgery. I was busy admiring her physical stature when my eyes wondered to her face.

Believe me, men see too many things on women.

 

 

 

Boost Your Self Confidence

I have heard of several instances where self esteem is a problem for so many, it has degenerated to a level so high in the life of an individual that they feel they can’t overcome it. It advances with them to adulthood to the extent that some people find it so hard to perform well in interviews, it makes some people avoid socializing, some find it so difficult to do things that will make them happy-because they think they will never be approved of.

It usually arises from early growth, where parents are being overprotective of the child; criticism is also an element, when a child is being pushed to hard, it makes him loose confidence, parents who criticize their children over every little detail or failure are not only killing their confidence but are also crippling their spirit.We as humans will take cognisance of it and decide to use it then bullying sets in.This can only maim an individual development, self esteem, self knowledge and growth. We don’t want this to happen to any of our loved one…

If you grew up this way, it’s never too late to get out of that bondage, that is what is seems to be…Think positive, be optimistic, never allow criticism get to you. People can’t bring you down, they can only try. Don’t allow your feelings be toyed with, you are the determinant of how people treat you, live your heart into their hands, then you are already under their control for manipulation.

Enhancing your self esteem will pave way in facing challenges, it helps you to meet the right people in the right social gathering, It helps you in development of your writing skills and not giving up in what you believe in no matter how many times you fail at it. You want to blog? You want to publish a book? You want to sing? Why not just take one step of confidence today and try whatever is bugging your mind and giving you sleepless nights as long as its’ not a bad thing…

How do you build self confidence? Say to yourself everyday,”I will try harder today, I will be confident today.” Be bold, take informed risks, challenge yourself, love yourself, always remind yourself that you want to succeed at whatever you do but you can only achieve it through confidence. Don’t be too hard on yourself.

Today is Monday! Be confident in achieving success at whatever you will embark on.

Xoxo