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Devastation- Never Been Asked Out By A Guy

January 24, 2017 eddaz 9 Comments

A fully grown woman in all proportions is expected to be asked out by men whether handsome or ugly, tall, short or whatever. It’s rather devastating when a girl of eighteen and above, single, pretty and descent isn’t asked out by any guy but only admired once in a while with kind gestures.

What could be the problem here? I met with a friend of mine yesterday who introduced me to her younger cousin of twenty-four, pretty girl I must admit. Apparently she has never be asked out by a guy talkless of being kissed😮😮 isn’t that rather ridiculous… Literally she has been missing out on the sumptuous kisses and attention of cute guys.

Now how do I come in here? I’m supposed to help hook her up with a guy and then I asked her ‘Tell me about yourself’ she goes thus…. “I’m a very shy lady, I love reading, not really the social type, I’m a virgin” but of course she has to be….I mean she has never been asked out except… Honestly, I would prefer not to hook her up but try to help prepare her for the experience of getting herself hooked.

The point here is that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with her nature except there must be something she isn’t saying. One thing I noticed about her was that she’s exceptionally shy; in this day and age I haven’t met a guy that wants the shy, innocent mummy’s girl, unfortunately…Technology has changed men and other things. No one wants to hang out with the boring type; also she doesn’t have those attractive smiles that makes a guy pee in his pants…

What should a girl that has never been asked out by a guy do to have them running after her?

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Why Women Should Not Cling Unto Their Men

January 11, 2017 eddaz 19 Comments

Dated back to ages women have always being known to be the more demanding sex, more emotionally attached in body and soul…Women are naturally emotionally charged while men are sexually charged.

Men would rather think with their….down there…While women think with the brains; this is a natural phenomenon which equals easily making women attached to the man they have strong feelings for. Men too have feelings but not as equal to that of the other sex. Clinging to men is enhanced when a woman is in love especially once she gets intimate with him…Does that mean women shouldn’t get involved in sex with men they love? Clinging to men simply can be described when a woman despises seeing her man staring at a woman, when he’s talking with another lady, he’s hanging out with friends, he does not call her 24/7, she wants to be with him most times or at all times if possible…Maybe some men like this but a greater percentage of them honestly detest this attitude.

Sex is strong, soul binding and if not careful can make women start attaching sentiments to the relationship which results to clinging onto the man. Clinging to men is not only unhealthy but can also make one lose out in the relationship by making men feel choked up and then run for their life, it makes women appear insecure. Men love freedom, they love sexy women that know what they are out there for. As women we need to be independent, strong, focused, aim to achieve the best and be at the upper hand of a relationship. Women have got the brains, learn to use them to your own advantage. Women have got the power to have whatever they wish to have only when used with the will power bestowed on us.

Women appear sexier when not clingy, more beautiful they become because they get all the attention which radiates from their heart. Women become clingy once they detect a man losing focus on them…Don’t get me wrong, I know how painful this can feel but note that a man that loves and respects you will always come back for you, if a man walks out on you, let it be…Things will surely work out in your own favour…This also applies to a man in a relationship with a woman…

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Oceanlike Mind Of A Woman

December 28, 2016 eddaz 24 Comments

Have you ever sat back and listened to a group of women talking? hmm. Be informed that the mind of a woman is as broad as an ocean- Whereas for some it’s more than that, so guess what women voice out.

Sex positions, foreplay techniques, past sexual experiences, YES, this discussion is not for men alone, you are probably thinking decent women shouldn’t talk about such but be rest assured that women love excitement and are human too. Now let’s move on–Celebrity gossip, clothes & fashion, latest make-up kit in town, men, relationships…..It keeps going on and on…“men don’t even try to get into the minds of women or you get drowned”.

Women sometimes discuss among themselves the concerns of other people, which could be about family issues, intellectual topics, culture, religious matters, food, child bearing…it’s endless!

They talk about anything and everything. While it’s a fact that women like to discuss the topics above, men shouldn’t believe that is all women talk about because this will tag them as being having a shallow view of women-for men like this, connecting to women would be a problem for them, so be open minded while around women.

The female colony like to chat away their excitement, sorrow, joy, new discoveries, one important thing men should know is that WOMEN talk about this things amongst WOMEN. Thread carefully while trying to find your way into thinking that a woman wants to freely discuss this topics with you. When a woman wants to talk to a man, without question and beyond doubts, she wants to discuss about other matters that belong to men’s ears.

Men, women-topics of discussions,regardless of age, height, color…we all love to discuss about things that we feel like talking about, no one should be judged on what they talk about in excitement or what’s on their mind, plus their is freedom of speech.

A lady’s imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to, matrimony in a moment- Jane Austen.

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Do Women Really Fall for Flattery?

October 10, 2016 eddaz 38 Comments

Over the years, there has been a saying that ” If you want a woman to comply to your requests, try using flattery to persuade her.” Really I wonder if every or any man can get away with this with all women. It may have worked a couple of times, in fact it has worked 98 percent of the time used. Flattery plays well with women. YES! But it doesn’t sit still. She will always refer back to it.

Hank Ketcham- Flattery is like chewing gum. Enjoy it, but don’t swallow it.

Perhaps women have been complying with this over the years.

Flattery is the worst and fastest way of showing our esteem – Jonathan Swift

Flattery is a form of positive energy which men use to compliment or entice women when they need an instant result from them; it’s usually used instead of enforcing them to bend to their will.

Forms of Flattery used on women by men:

Men flatter women with words, lies, compliments and gestures.
Listening attentively to a woman talk for hours, even when she sounds very boring.
Pretending to have turned a new leaf by acting like a saint or being over sincere.
Showing interests in her accomplishments even if they make no sense to him.

A woman care about actions more than words, empty juicy flattery with nothing to back it up will only get her to pay attention initially, but will not go too far with her.

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What Men see When They Look at Women

August 20, 2016 eddaz 58 Comments

Have you ever looked into the eyes of a man when he sees an attractive lady with gorgeous smile set across her face, full sumptuous lips like berry, beautifully set backside, and glowing skin.

I have seen it times without number! In my estimation, men simply love to express their gratitude with their EYES ON WOMEN.

What transpires in the mind of a man when this happens, I heard it’s called CHEMICAL HIGH. Such as when water is been added into an acid.

Men, regardless of their status quo, whether married or single… look at women, this is a fact that needs to be acknowledged, their is no way out of the truth.

Men have been programmed in such a way to appreciate the physical structure of women… be it naked or fully clothed; Women should’t allow this affect their way of life or relationship with their partner, men will always stare at women. Some men go as far as stripping a fully clothed women naked with their eyes, their ripples of thoughts go as wild as having sex with the woman on the spot or trying to decide which sex position will befit the lady…..Some obviously gaze just to admire the beauty of a lady.

~~It’s ridiculous when some of these men go as far as five rounds of sex on a pinpoint with their thoughts. What a high sexual drive that is.~~

Yet, it is carried overboard by some men where they can’t control their thoughts; this type of men are the ones that ladies should be aware of and take caution.

Here is my own take; Since evolution, men have always had a high sexual drive which in most cases control their thoughts.

Women have you ever found yourself in a situation where you are jogging or you simply make a sudden movement and a man just sits-stares at your bouncing boobs, it’s so amazing how men can flaunt their eyes in such a devastating manner, even so, it’s all about appreciating the woman’s SEXY BOOBS… I guess some men just try to guess the size of a lady’s breast, if it’s an A cup, C cup or DD….

As for those women trying not to shake their bootylicious bottom too often; These bits don’t bother guys, they will stare UNTIL THEY START SHIVERING like they are in winter whilst in summer. So shake it as much as you love to; You are endowed.

I had an experience in high school, where a male student walked up to me and said, “anytime I set my eyes on you, I feel like wrapping you up in my arms because you look so seductive,” I actually didn’t know how to respond to the nonsense talk at that moment since I was still kind of innocent, so I walked off in a confused state….Now I know better.

I decided to write this article because I saw a scenario where my colleague gawked openly at a female client, I got concerned when he looked away, sat down at his desk like he was going to start shedding tears.

Here is what happened:

Me: Frank, are you alright?

Frank: Yes, yes I am.

Me:Why did you stare at the lady that way?

Frank: I didn’t know you where watching.

Me: I just noticed what happened briefly.

Frank: You Know…..I appreciate women but I have never seen anything like this in real life.

Me: What is it?

Frank: Didn’t you see her lips? It’s battered with surgery. I was busy admiring her physical stature when my eyes wondered to her face.

Believe me, men see too many things on women.