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The Ideal Relationship

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Healthy relationships create an atmosphere for friendship and courtship. It comprises trust, honesty, respect, and loyalty so you have hope for an ideal relationship based on this foundation. It’s not always as easy as it sounds because there’s bound to be conflicts, disagreements, miscommunications and this happens because we are human and no one is perfect.

Therefore, before going into any relationship, remember your partner isn’t perfect, neither are you so don’t expect a relationship without flaws.

Ideas on building the Ideal Relationship.

  • Acknowledge each other’s feelings
  • Respect for each other.
  • Never condemn your partner
  • Accept each other’s flaws.
  • Accept you made mistakes and adjust.
  • Always communicate through talking, emailing, texting or written letters.
  • Forgive.
  • Don’t pretend to be perfect nor act saintly.
  • Help each other.
  • Build trust.

If the following doesn’t work, then you may need to take a break and figure out what you both want from each other.

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Release The Dark Emotions

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You feel anger, frustration and have this gruesome feeling at the pit of your stomach all because your partner did something or keeps doing things you feel you can’t forgive them for.

It’s best to release all the dark and cooked up emotions in a way you can control without letting it get out of hand, if not it will build up into hatred and then a complete disaster.

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Giving You The Best That I Got

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I watched #BETAwards last night and I was impressed at  how Jamie Foxx put together some of Anita Baker’s songs. One of the lyrics he emphasized on was ‘giving you the best that I got’ and the question I want to ask is are you giving the best that you got in whatever situation you’ve found yourself?

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Giving your best all that you got realistically doesn’t have to do with just a person but also situations surrounding you that need great attention. For instance, you have an exam to write and you got to make good grades otherwise you will be a step backwards from your objective, in that case you got to give it the best that you got. Another case where you need to feed your family, provide shelter, put clothes on your back, what must you do? You got to give it the best that you got…meaning ‘increase your hustle.’

You want your partner to devote his or her heart to you, then you got to give that relationship the best that you got. You’ve got to be strong in life, physically, emotionally and spiritually.

I cry out

I’m dried out

I’m getting out

Can’t go on no more…

Hey stop!!!

You got to give it the best that you got.

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Would You Show Love Or Say It

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It’s usually a confusing state of mind when women and men in relationships don’t know if to tell their partner they are in love with them or just simply keep showing it without having to say it out.

Some have had sad experiences where when they start saying “I love you” to their partner is actually the stage when the partner starts messing up or taking their feelings for granted because it now sounds like song to their ears.

Remember some of us get tired of even very interesting songs over time while others probably don’t, which is very rare.

Which would you rather do?

•Say it often to your partner ” I love you”?

•Just simply keep showing the love and affection without saying it?

•Do both but how often?

 

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The Man Behind The Curtain

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He smiles when it rains love

Glows when the moon sets

Roars like the king of the jungle when I’m hurt

Keeps me in the comfort of his arms….

I see a man sitting in the dead of the night, staring hard…

Do I really know the man behind the curtain?

Have you ever really sat down to think about your partner, who he really is, what goes on in that tiny mind of his. What does he do when you aren’t looking? Is he really generally stable?

Good question…

Several of us have said I trust my partner, we communicate very well…that is very good, trust is one of the building blocks of a good relationship and communication is essential be it courtship or marriage, but have an open mind, we are all human; in the process of doing both and giving space know that the devil exist in us to act just as their is goodness in us. Sometimes we are weak but pretend to be strong…

Do you really know the man behind the curtain?

Whoever is behind the curtain of your love life. Be attentive- eddaz.