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When He Cares But Not Ready

August 10, 2017 eddaz 30 Comments

I’ve sometimes wondered about this type of men that show women they care about them but say it out so blatantly that they aren’t ready for a commitment and then this type of man that wants to get a girl pregnant before he decides to marry her. Life is a wierd dude…. ain’t it? I was at the salon and heard a group of friends talk about this men in their life.

Guy A.

He’s a cool guy, doing fine in his career, responsible, funny, shows support to the girl he cares about, treats her with respect and not a player but not sure if he is ready to get committed by going into a relationship with her, doesn’t even care much about getting sex or not. Beeps her when she goes quiet.

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My opinion is that this guy has a phobia of some sort. But what can a girl do with this type of guy?

Guy B.

He’s got good career, hardworking bad ass guy, good looking, searching for a girl to get pregnant before he decides to get married to her considering the fact that he has tried lots of girls that haven’t been able to give him one. Lol…even though he already has a kid almost out of college.

He cares but not ready

My opinion is that I’m clueless to what this guy really wants. Or maybe he’s just damn old school.

What’s your opinion about this two guys?

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Is Sex A Priority Or An Option?

July 26, 2017 eddaz 28 Comments

I would like to analyze this in two aspects ” sex as a priority or an option in a relationship” and sex as a priority or an option in a marriage”…

From my point of view which I believe is same with many of us- sex is a priority in marriage…isn’t it? So enjoy it to the fullest.

Talking about it being a priority in a relationship, I would definitely say NO. I’m dead sure a lot of guys are not on same page with me here.

Having sex with my boyfriend is an option for me because it’s my body until he wraps that ring on my finger, then it becomes a priority. Better still if I chose to have sex with him, it’s still my option because I love to.

It’s high time men stop seeing sex as priority especially these damned stuffed up men on the dating site that seek for sex like they would die any moment they don’t get it.

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Valentine’s Day Expectations

February 14, 2017 eddaz 9 Comments

I always believe Valentine’s day shouldn’t be restricted to being celebrated in a day February 14th. It’s a day I presume should be celebrated everyday. It’s a day celebrated in love and could be with anyone not just your lover and must not be restricted to sex😓😓 just as some are anticipating.

To my own knowledge, today should be celebrated specially with the people we have been too busy to express our love to such as spending time with the poor and feeding them, donating to the orphans, friends we haven’t heard from in a while should be called and greeted, family members far away can be sent one or two surprise gifts or called on phone to show love. Show love to the elderly ones, send flowers to the sick ones.

My previous Valentine’s day was spent in the office all day..working..I barely remembered what day it was.When I was a lot younger, due to my naivety I used to think Valentine’s day was for adults and couples only, which made me eager to grow fast, little did I know back then…

As I grew older I began to understand better and placed less significance on that day because I realised I could celebrate it everyday but acknowledged that It needed more emphacies on February 14th and in a different way.

How has your previous Valentine’s day been and what are your expectations for today’s celebration?

Today is my nephew’s birthday so I sure will share the love with him..

Happy Valentines Day to everyone out there💝💝💝😘😘😘💕💕💕💞💞💞🎈🎈

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Why Women Should Not Cling Unto Their Men

January 11, 2017 eddaz 19 Comments

Dated back to ages women have always being known to be the more demanding sex, more emotionally attached in body and soul…Women are naturally emotionally charged while men are sexually charged.

Men would rather think with their….down there…While women think with the brains; this is a natural phenomenon which equals easily making women attached to the man they have strong feelings for. Men too have feelings but not as equal to that of the other sex. Clinging to men is enhanced when a woman is in love especially once she gets intimate with him…Does that mean women shouldn’t get involved in sex with men they love? Clinging to men simply can be described when a woman despises seeing her man staring at a woman, when he’s talking with another lady, he’s hanging out with friends, he does not call her 24/7, she wants to be with him most times or at all times if possible…Maybe some men like this but a greater percentage of them honestly detest this attitude.

Sex is strong, soul binding and if not careful can make women start attaching sentiments to the relationship which results to clinging onto the man. Clinging to men is not only unhealthy but can also make one lose out in the relationship by making men feel choked up and then run for their life, it makes women appear insecure. Men love freedom, they love sexy women that know what they are out there for. As women we need to be independent, strong, focused, aim to achieve the best and be at the upper hand of a relationship. Women have got the brains, learn to use them to your own advantage. Women have got the power to have whatever they wish to have only when used with the will power bestowed on us.

Women appear sexier when not clingy, more beautiful they become because they get all the attention which radiates from their heart. Women become clingy once they detect a man losing focus on them…Don’t get me wrong, I know how painful this can feel but note that a man that loves and respects you will always come back for you, if a man walks out on you, let it be…Things will surely work out in your own favour…This also applies to a man in a relationship with a woman…

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Oceanlike Mind Of A Woman

December 28, 2016 eddaz 24 Comments

Have you ever sat back and listened to a group of women talking? hmm. Be informed that the mind of a woman is as broad as an ocean- Whereas for some it’s more than that, so guess what women voice out.

Sex positions, foreplay techniques, past sexual experiences, YES, this discussion is not for men alone, you are probably thinking decent women shouldn’t talk about such but be rest assured that women love excitement and are human too. Now let’s move on–Celebrity gossip, clothes & fashion, latest make-up kit in town, men, relationships…..It keeps going on and on…“men don’t even try to get into the minds of women or you get drowned”.

Women sometimes discuss among themselves the concerns of other people, which could be about family issues, intellectual topics, culture, religious matters, food, child bearing…it’s endless!

They talk about anything and everything. While it’s a fact that women like to discuss the topics above, men shouldn’t believe that is all women talk about because this will tag them as being having a shallow view of women-for men like this, connecting to women would be a problem for them, so be open minded while around women.

The female colony like to chat away their excitement, sorrow, joy, new discoveries, one important thing men should know is that WOMEN talk about this things amongst WOMEN. Thread carefully while trying to find your way into thinking that a woman wants to freely discuss this topics with you. When a woman wants to talk to a man, without question and beyond doubts, she wants to discuss about other matters that belong to men’s ears.

Men, women-topics of discussions,regardless of age, height, color…we all love to discuss about things that we feel like talking about, no one should be judged on what they talk about in excitement or what’s on their mind, plus their is freedom of speech.