Tag Archives: men

Would You Show Love Or Say It

It’s usually a confusing state of mind when women and men in relationships don’t know if to tell their partner they are in love with them or just simply keep showing it without having to say it out.

Some have had sad experiences where when they start saying “I love you” to their partner is actually the stage when the partner starts messing up or taking their feelings for granted because it now sounds like song to their ears.

Remember some of us get tired of even very interesting songs over time while others probably don’t, which is very rare.

Which would you rather do?

•Say it often to your partner ” I love you”?

•Just simply keep showing the love and affection without saying it?

•Do both but how often?

 

When He Cares But Not Ready

I’ve sometimes wondered about this type of men that show women they care about them but say it out so blatantly that they aren’t ready for a commitment and then this type of man that wants to get a girl pregnant before he decides to marry her. Life is a wierd dude…. ain’t it? I was at the salon and heard a group of friends talk about this men in their life.

Guy A.

He’s a cool guy, doing fine in his career, responsible, funny, shows support to the girl he cares about, treats her with respect and not a player but not sure if he is ready to get committed by going into a relationship with her, doesn’t even care much about getting sex or not. Beeps her when she goes quiet.

ezgif.com-resize (89)_1

My opinion is that this guy has a phobia of some sort. But what can a girl do with this type of guy?

Guy B.

He’s got good career, hardworking bad ass guy, good looking, searching for a girl to get pregnant before he decides to get married to her considering the fact that he has tried lots of girls that haven’t been able to give him one. Lol…even though he already has a kid almost out of college.

He cares but not ready

My opinion is that I’m clueless to what this guy really wants. Or maybe he’s just damn old school.

What’s your opinion about this two guys?

Is Sex A Priority Or An Option?

I would like to analyze this in two aspects ” sex as a priority or an option in a relationship” and sex as a priority or an option in a marriage”…

From my point of view which I believe is same with many of us- sex is a priority in marriage…isn’t it? So enjoy it to the fullest.

Is sex a priority or an option

Talking about it being a priority in a relationship, I would definitely say NO. I’m dead sure a lot of guys are not on same page with me here.

Having sex with my boyfriend is an option for me because it’s my body until he wraps that ring on my finger, then it becomes a priority. Better still if I chose to have sex with him, it’s still my option because I love to.

Is sex a priority or an option?

It’s high time men stop seeing sex as priority especially these damned stuffed up men on the dating site that seek for sex like they would die any moment they don’t get it.

 

 

When Is The Right Time To Introduce My Boyfriend

It bugs me each time I meet a new guy in my life and then he says to me ‘I would like to know some of your friends or siblings’…Men are known for their hmmm😓 funny attitudes especially in the dating field.

It might also be the other way round…They want to meet him😓😓 and then he turns out to be a moron…

When do i introduce my boyfriend

What if I introduce him to my innermost world of friends or family today and he jilts me tomorrow😮 how would my loved ones feel? They are usually very sensitive about what goes on in our life. Is it timely?

tumblr_mifgmzAVbk1s2zyxzo1_500

What do I say to them? And then the next guy comes along and then another and another..What the hell??

Kindly share your opinion on the right time to introduce my boyfriend…

 

My Female Director Is In Love with Me

I am Rob! The new guy on the block. An expatriate newly employed to set up new strategies of moving the business forward. Everyone sees me as a threat, they aren’t too sure what my mission is at the company, however I am here to set things straight. I don’t take no for an answer and I don’t  fail. Failure went away with the past.

I am at cross roads, stupidly in love with Hilda…The director of the company whom I had to transfer her toyboy since he was annoyingly troubling my thoughts and his unethical behaviour at the organisation was unprofitable. An empty brained good looking idiot.

Hilda deserves better…I love her and will show her the meaning of true love. I will let her know what a real man is..She needs to know what it feels like to be treated like a woman. That ice clouding her chest, freezing her heartbeat, turning her into an emotionless woman with the power to shake an organisation and make men act clueless around her needs to be amended.

My heart beat quickened when I finally saw her walking in to the office hall, through my office glass door..I saw the pain written all over her face, while I wondered how she manages to maintain her balance with those 6 inch heels and the sexual shape that drives men crazy.

My female director is in love with mr

She stepped into my office and broke down into tears while I softly took her in my arms, laid her head on my hard chest and let her release the whole pain while the staff member watched in amazement. She raised her soft heads looked into my eyes and said to me softly..Rob I can’t hold it any longer, I have tried so hard to stay away from you for years, I have tried so hard to work hard to take you off my mind, there’s so much pain in my chest from loving you, after all this year’s I need to love freely even if you don’t love me back.

I was shocked, I felt like my shoes were stuck to the hard floor and I couldn’t raise them, when I opened my mouth to talk, my voice sounded like a frog croaking. I cleared it and finally said to her..”Hilda I have always admired you and have fallen in love with you. I love you from deep within me..You are the woman I have always prayed to spend my life with if you accept” and then I devoured her mouth with a long kiss right there in my office.

Rob built his own organization elsewhere while. He dated Hilda for a while and they got married. Harry was relieved of his duties while he was caught making out with one of the female cleaners in the office at his new location.

Here are the links to the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd part of the stories:

Harry- Oh my sexy female director

Harry –  What my sexy female director did

Harry- My Sexy Female Director Has Done It

Rob-loving Loving my sexy female director

Thanks for reading and hope you enjoyed the stories😍😍