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Romance Languages

Engulfed in the wind of enchantment

Bathing in the cloud of love

The arrows of romance fired at me

Speaking languages I never imagined

Stay with me forever

So I may dance only to your tune

There are five most spoken romance languages according to Wikipedia. They are…French, Spanish, Romanian, Portuguese, and Italian. I suggest you have a language you speak to someone you hold special in your heart.

This only symbolizes their uniqueness; even without them understanding it; the weight of the emotion behind the conversations would say it all. It’s interesting when you add a theme to your relationship either in marriage or courtship period; your partner would feel like the cutest baby in the world when you speak the language occasionally with a beautiful smile on your face and flower to go with it for the women and for the men; you as a woman could convey it while presenting your naughtiness.

  1. Le doy mi corazón y mi alma a amarte (I give my heart and soul to loving you)- Spanish
  2. Je veuxme noyerdanston arôme (I want to drown myself in your aroma) –French
  3. Ești cel maisexy lucrupe care trebuiesă-l facivreodată pe această planetă (You are the sexiest thing ever to walk this planet)– Romanian
  4. Il tuobustoaccendefiammenelmiocuore (Your torso sparks flames in my heart) –Italian
  5. Você é maisbonitaquetodasas estrelasno céu (You are prettier than the stars in the sky) –Portuguese

You can say short phrases if you find it difficult expressing a sentence.

Te amo (I love you) Italian

Ma séductrice (My seductress) French

Tu ești lumeamea (You are my world)  Romanian

So I hope I worked up your appetite for romance on another continent. You can come up with something of your own as long as you try a seductive, romantic language.

I wish you the best.

 

How Not To Stay Single

I published a post on my blog two weeks ago on “Why Men Stay Single,” hence based on one of my dear readers who asked me to write on this topic, “How not to stay single,” here we go. But note, I’m not a relationship expert, everything I write on my blog based on relationships, love, and marriage is of my opinion, research, and true life experiences.

It’s a state of mind when you panic about being single, it should be considered as a learning period; Once you accept the position in your life, it will surprise you how other things will fall into place, things you never expected nor planned. Getting married or entering a long-term relationship is not the end to your struggles… believe me; It’s an eye-opener and another learning ground. But the good news is that if you meet the right person who is willing to travel on the same path – you will be able to rock the boat together regardless of the storms…

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If you don’t want to stay single, consider the following…

-Accept that you are single.

-Search your heart since no one is listening to your thoughts and ask yourself if you are ready for a relationship.

-If you feel insecure or have biased feelings about dating but unwilling to stay single, you might need to make some visits to your therapy.

-Stay happy and take time to discover yourself.

-You will make mistakes but never be hard on yourself.

-Acknowledge that no one is perfect.

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-Don’t be selective of men or women to date.

-Build your confidence, work on your charisma, be real.

-Always put yourself together.

-Don’t rush into any relationship because you don’t want to stay single.

-Don’t dwell on the past but look forward to the future with joy on the horizon.

-Don’t make a list of what the ideal partner should be but open your heart.

-Prepare yourself for agreements, disagreements, love, long-term commitment and whatever you might encounter when you start dating.

-Be ready to let go, there will be times you must sacrifice your desires to make your partner happy.

When your ‘OWN’ partner comes, nothing can stop you from being together… NOTHING

If the relationship doesn’t work out, move on and stay happy, never lose confidence in yourself because it means that you and the person aren’t meant to be together.

Feel free to share your opinions on how not to stay single.

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Your Ideal Partner

Destination unknown to reality

Taking me into the depths

of happiness hiding in the darkness.

When the wind drives you in a direction uncertain to you, you wonder why you keep moving along without control; you try as much as possible to fight it but end up in the same path and that’s when you realize that love can take you through different phases in life you least expect.

If you belong to the group of people that make a list of the ideal man or woman they prefer to date, trust me you will end up with no one for a long time. Hence if faith is on your side, you will meet your lover contrary to the list you made up and regardless of how much you remind yourself of your ideal partner, you will keep falling back into the hands of this person who you tag as the unideal lover. So relax and allow faith to take charge and when it happens, accept it and you will discover a better person for you than your ideal partner.

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The Ideal Relationship

Healthy relationships create an atmosphere for friendship and courtship. It comprises trust, honesty, respect, and loyalty so you have hope for an ideal relationship based on this foundation. It’s not always as easy as it sounds because there’s bound to be conflicts, disagreements, miscommunications and this happens because we are human and no one is perfect.

Therefore, before going into any relationship, remember your partner isn’t perfect, neither are you so don’t expect a relationship without flaws.

Ideas on building the Ideal Relationship.

  • Acknowledge each other’s feelings
  • Respect for each other.
  • Never condemn your partner
  • Accept each other’s flaws.
  • Accept you made mistakes and adjust.
  • Always communicate through talking, emailing, texting or written letters.
  • Forgive.
  • Don’t pretend to be perfect nor act saintly.
  • Help each other.
  • Build trust.

If the following doesn’t work, then you may need to take a break and figure out what you both want from each other.

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What’s Your Idea Of A Romantic Evening

Hugging – Hold her with tenderness, she’s your baby.

Kissing -Go slow and easy, settle around the tongue, then romance it.

Touching- Touch him in sensitive places that will intoxicate him.

Talking – Tell her she’s the sexiest spice in your life and nibble on her ear.

Stroking – “Baby let me stroke you up and down until you say stop”

       She probably would never say stop…..

Magnetize – Dress sexy to magnetize his gaze to your….B&B,

He probably would rip it off you so take care…

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